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Toni Principe MSW, LICSW

Counseling + Clinical Supervision

I’m a licensed independent clinical social worker providing psychotherapy for adults (18+). I offer in-person therapy at my Olympia office, with the options of traditional talk therapy or “walk & talk” therapy. I am also able to provide virtual therapy to all Washington residents. My focus areas include grief work and relational trauma (more commonly referred to as complex PTSD or interpersonal trauma).

I strive to assist people from all backgrounds in understanding and embracing their inherent power so that they feel confident and supported in their journey for self-exploration, growth, and adaptation to all that life throws our way. Often, my clients and I work together to explore and process attachment wounds, relational struggles, shame, identity, self image/esteem, fawning behaviors, grief and loss. I believe that the therapeutic process is different for each individual, and that creating a safe and supportive space for others to be free to explore their vulnerabilities and self-awareness is vital.

““We do not have to romanticize our past in order to be aware of how it seeds our present. We do not have to suffer the waste of an amnesia that robs us of the lessons of the past rather than permit us to read them with pride as well as deep understanding. We know what it is to be lied to, and we know how important it is not lie to ourselves. We are powerful because we have survived, and that is what it is all about—survival and growth.”

—Audre Lorde

Experience

Director of Social Services- Brooksville Healthcare Center (2006-2011)

Social Worker- Warrior Transition Battalion, Ft. Riley (2011-2013)

Hospice Social Worker (2014-2023)

Hospice Clinical Manager (2021-2023)

Bridges and Boundaries Counseling Services, LLC (2023-2025)

Credentials

I am a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, SWI.LW.61243921, as recognized by the Washington State Department of Health.

  • Bachelor of Social Work 2006 (University of South Florida)

  • Master of Social Work 2014 (University of Southern California)

  • I am a queer and neurodivergent affirming clinician whose practice is rooted heavily in grief work and relational trauma (cPTSD).

    My style could be described as curious and collaborative, joining my clients on their quest of self discovery and growth.

    My role in the therapeutic relationship is one of guidance and support. You are the subject matter expert of YOU!

    Together we work to:

    • Identify and “connect the dots” of your story.

    • Develop the skills and knowledge needed to better navigate life's uncertainties, losses and transitions.

    • Unleash your your hidden inner advocate, build community and reclaim your power.

  • WITHOUT QUESTION! YES!

    Our developmental, emotional and relational struggles cannot be separated from politics, policy or social systems, and pretending it does perpetuates harm.

    Each person who walks into therapy brings the world, and their experiences with the world, in with them.

    Your stress, fears, relationships, identity, strengths, struggles, safety and opportunities are shaped by the very systems that influence how you live and move through society.

    When systems create instability or chronic stress, people feel it psychologically. Anxiety, depression, burnout, grief and trauma are often reasonable responses to sustained pressure and oppression. Ignoring that context does not make therapy neutral, it makes it incomplete, at times invalidating, reinforces abusive power dynamics and places the entire responsibility for one’s suffering on the individual.

  • I grew up on the Jersey Shore, but have been obsessed with the PNW since I was a small child (Goonies never say die). I moved to Washington state in 2015 and never looked back.

    My preferred pronouns are they/she and I identify as queer.

    I am neurodivergent (AuDHD) and I love collecting rocks and talking about/sharing my special interests with others (just ask)!

    I’ve been told I have a very expressive face and a bit of a potty mouth (you’ve been warned).

    I change my hair color a lot! Make it pink! No blue! No pink! (you get it)

    I have two (elderly) pups and cat (who thinks she’s a dog). They are the best and I have the pictures and stories to prove it :)

    I enjoy being in nature, getting my hands dirty, live music, storytelling, farmers markets, bookstores and very recently reignited my passion for strength training/weightlifting.

    I’m pretty much an open book. So if you have a question, ask!